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In the sixteen years of life, I have come to value many things in life. One day, when I was sitting at the shore, listening to the crashing waves, viewing the beautiful sunset in PD that fascinated me, I have come to think of things that are value in my life. It was indeed a good chance that I wouldn't want to miss. I thought about it as if it was a dream that never wakes me up. In the end, I realised that it was in reality and I was really into this topic that suddenly hit though my mind. There are many things that would fall into this category, but I made a few of them on the top of my list. Many people learn to value things in their lives when they have seen how the other's influenced them to do so. Now, make yourself as the main character in this topic. Do you value things in your life? Have you ever spent some time to think about it? Perhaps 50% of people do so. Lets continue reading................
The very top of my list of things, rather people that I value the most is my family. Family is the most eternal part in everyone's life. I am fortunate to be in a happiness family. I have loving and caring parents that show me concern in every second since I was born. They are very supportive. Whenever I needed advices from people around me, they will eventually be the one who would understand my feelings and find out what I really want in my life. To be frank, this situation might just happen once in a blue moon, but I do cherish every advices that have given by them. Parents' love is just not as same as Friends' love. All I could say is there are a distance between the both of this. Parents will ever try their best to work something out to fulfill our little passions and hopes and desires to make us feel occupied. Although sometimes I feel the torn of family's love, I can break down into tears without anybody knows, but I believe that is just temporary because everyone has their own limit for patience and anger. Arguements that happen at certain times are normal for all families. Without the presence of arguements, one will not realised the importance of family's love in his life.
After family, another thing that I value the most is my beloved friends that have been by my side all this while. Throughout the sixteen years of life, I bumped into many friends with different personalities that made me realised the importance of friendship. Everyday we meet people. Many of them become instant acquaintances and most acquaintances bloom into friendship. Friends come into our lives and leave footprints in our hearts. Yeah, indeed it is a true saying. I met many friends throughout my life, but only 1/4 of all stay with me longer and the others leave silently that made us lost contact to each other eventually. Anyhow, I am still appreciate that those who had once came into my life and befriended with me that constant reminded me how a friendship bond was built between us. It is during time like these, when I am burdened with works and life seems to be so dull and struggling, I seek the comforting words of a friend. A friend that gives me fully supports, understanding and urges me to move on with a better life. I simply love advices that are given from my friends around me, I feel warmth and loved at the moment and those advices is a form of inspiration for me to ignore the negative aspects of life, and lead myself with a happiness life. I shall treasure the good time that I shared with my them and learn the mistakes during the bad times. So friends out there, thanks for the advices that cheer me up at times. :)
I thank God for I am able to make my own decisions now. It is part of the important things that I value the most right now. It is a good way that I do not need to depend all on my family. Being able to make my own decisions can make me a become a discipline and independent girl from now on. I can choose and decide for my future. As in the tertiary education after my form6 or matriculation. There is not a problem for me to talk to them about what I want to be in my future career. I simply hope that it would be fine for them. As I reminisced the olden days when I was still a child, I had even thought of being a housewife. In the olden days, women did not have much says in the society and most of them got married and stayed at home to raise their children while the men striving hard for money to raise the family. But in this modern world, many women are involved in the professional careers and striving hard for the family as well as a contribution for the world.
I appreciate and love many aspects of my life now as I never regret for choosing to ignore the negative happenings that can make me feel gloomy and grey. Of course, I have many other things that I value in my life. Nevertheless, I value the things that matter and I know I have already owned them in my life. The matter is I shall treasure and appreciate everything in my life and continue to make them all to become a better one. So, think about the things that you value in your life.........
